Out of all the positions of the Kama Sutra, spooning sex is surely one of the easiest, if not, the easiest to perform. However, this does not mean you shouldn't look for ways to change it up a bit. Here are some tips and tricks as to how to amp up this sex position.
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The Spoon, a Kama Sutra classic
Just like the missionary position, the spoon is a classic of Kama Sutra. This easy-to-perform position allows you to have sex even when you are tired. Couples who practice 'vanilla sex' often turn to the spoon, since it allows them to make love tenderly, whether in bed or on the couch, without having to exert too much energy.
For this reason, this position can be considered old-fashioned and even boring to some. Partners who want to spice up their sex life do not usually turn to this practice of the Kama Sutra. However, there are a few tricks to revisit spooning sex to make it much more exciting. To do so, you just have to get creative with this position!
Tips to make the Spoon more exciting
The first tip to rediscover spooning sex is to try the 'reverse spoon.' In this variation, instead of having your partner's backside to you, you should be facing each other with your legs intertwined. This little variation will offer new sensations, while continuing to be close to the person with whom you share this magical moment.
And if that isn't enough of a twist on a classic, spoon sex is the perfect position to smoothly transition into anal sex. This is something you should probably talk to your partner about to see if they are comfortable trying out. Although butt-sex can be intensely pleasurable, it might not be everyone's cup of tea—especially if done incorrectly.
So, how do you go about going from spoon sex to anal spoon sex? Lube up, take your time, be gentle at first and don't forget to communicate with your partner!